War of Words
In War of Words, Paul David Tripp tackles the heart of our communication struggles by grounding them in a biblical framework.
The book begins by reminding us that before we ever speak, God speaks. I found myself longing for my words—especially toward my children—to be saturated with the gospel and shaped by the Word of God.
One of the most compelling insights from the book is how our words reveal the “ruling desires” or idols of our hearts. Tripp argues that speech driven by sinful agendas can be transformed when we submit to the sovereignty of our Savior.
Ambassadors
Tripp frames our role as Christians as ambassadors of the King, tasked with using the tools of self-sacrifice, forgiveness, and reconciliation to reshape how we speak. A particularly challenging chapter explores a biblical model for confrontation—calling us to confront with truth and love, while staying faithfully on mission.
The book concludes with an encouraging reminder: the battle for our words is a journey. Yet each day, we can choose to use our words as tools for healing, not harm—bringing life rather than destruction.
This second edition of War of Words, originally published in 2000, features updated Scripture quotations (now from the ESV), revised discussion questions at the end of each chapter, and various editorial refinements throughout.
Speaking Grace and Truth
Practical and deeply wise, War of Words was one of the first books I read by Paul Tripp, and its message continues to resonate. Over the years, I’ve grown not only in personal relationships (as a husband and father) but also in ministry roles (as a preacher, teacher, and online creator). The war on words is ongoing, but by the grace of God, we are equipped to fight and to win.
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