Single Together
In Single Together, Lisa LaGeorge shares how to steward singleness in the family of God. Rather than viewing singleness as a season defined by what is missing, she presents it as an opportunity to faithfully steward our lives, relationships, resources, and calling for the glory of God. Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and years of ministry, LaGeorge offers a compassionate and practical vision for how singles can flourish as valued members of Christ’s family.
Family and Friendship
I most appreciated LaGeorge’s emphasis on the responsibility of church leaders and the broader church family to embrace and integrate singles into the life of the church. She challenges churches to move beyond simply creating programs for singles and instead cultivate genuine belonging through multigenerational fellowship, meaningful friendships, opportunities to serve, faithful teaching from God’s Word, and spaces where singles can both contribute and rest. She also offers practical wisdom for supporting singles well, including providing trustworthy counselors, tangible support, and thoughtful language that reflects the dignity and value of every believer.
I was most challenged by LaGeorge’s encouragement for singles to pursue deep friendships. The Christian life was never meant to be lived in isolation, and singles are called to invest in relationships, community, and the mission of the church.
Sorrow and Sexuality
I was most moved by LaGeorge’s honest discussion of the sorrow that can accompany singleness. In a deeply personal chapter, she addresses the pain of childlessness, the assumptions others may make, and the doubts and fears that can arise. Yet she consistently points readers back to Christ—the One who understands suffering, meets us in sorrow, and gives purpose even in seasons of waiting and loss.
I was most grateful for the chapter on singleness and sexuality. This is an area that is often either ignored or addressed without sufficient compassion and biblical clarity. LaGeorge provides a straightforward and faithful framework for how single believers can steward their sexuality in a way that honors Christ. This chapter alone makes the book worth reading.
Church and Missions
The final chapters consider the place of singles within the church and the unique opportunities they have to participate in missions and God’s work in the world. LaGeorge closes with the reminder that Christ Himself is the ultimate source of comfort, joy, and fulfillment for singles.
Single Together is a personal and practical look at singleness rooted in the gospel. The reflection questions at the end of each chapter make this book especially useful for personal study, small groups, and church leadership conversations. This is a timely resource for helping the church better understand, honor, and walk alongside singles as members of the family of God.
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